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The Meaning of LOVE

My wife said to me who was reading the paper, "How long before you read the newspaper? Can you come here and help my dear daughter to eat. "

I put the newspaper and see my daughter satu2nya, named Sindu, looked frightened tears. In front there is a bowl of rice containing rice sour cream / yogurt (Indian rice = curd rice). Sindu is a sweet child and includes a new smart in her eight years. He was not like to eat this rice curd. Mother and my wife is still old-fashioned, they believe that eating curd rice once there was a "cooling effect".

I took the bowl and said:
"Sindu, darling, for the father, would you eat a few spoonfuls of this curd rice? If not, then your mother will teriak2 same father. "

I could feel my wife's scowl behind my back. Sindu sobs subsided and she wiped tears with his hand and said:
"Can a father would I eat curd rice is not just a few spoons, but all will I spend, but I'll ask ..." rather ragu2 a moment ... "....'ll Get something similar when dad finished all the rice. Is the father would promise to meet my request? "

I replied: "Oh, sure honey."

Sindu: "Yes father?"

"Yeah sure .." My hand holding the container mudaan and gentle as a sign of approval.

Sindu also urged his mother to promise the same thing, my wife patted his hand.
Sindu a whimper as he said without emotion, "promise" said my wife.

I'm a bit worried and said:
"Sindu, do not ask for a computer or other expensive barang2 well, because fathers do not currently have any money."

Sindu: "Do not worry, do not ask barang2 Sindu expensive anyway."

Sindu Then slowly and seems very miserable, he's determined to spend all the rice milk is sour. In my heart I was angry at his wife and mother who forced Sindu to eat something that does not like ..

After Sindu through his suffering, he approached me with eyes full of hope and all the attention (I, my wife and also my mother), directed to him.

Sindu apparently going head digundulin on Sunday!

My wife spontaneously said: "Demand crazy, dibotakin daughter, no way!"

Also my mother grumbled do not happen in our family, she's too much TV. And program2 TV ruined our culture.

I try to persuade: "Sindu, why do not you ask for something else we would all be sad to see you bald."

But Sindu remain with the choice: - "There's no 'well, nobody else wants."

I try to appeal to Sindu:
- "Please, why do not you try to understand our feelings!"

Sindu, with tears, said:
- "You've seen how miserable I spent the rice milk is sour and the father had promised to meet the demand of me. Why are fathers now want to withdraw my own words? Daddy Was not teach moral lessons,
that we must fulfill our promises no matter what happens against someone like Raja Harishchandra (Indian king of ancient times) to fulfill his promise to give real king of the throne, his power, even his own son's life. "

Now I decided to fulfill my request: - "The promise we have kept .."

Simultaneously wife and my mother said: - "Am I mad?"

Me: "No, if we're licking their own saliva, she will never learn how to value herself. Sindu your request we will meet. "

With a bald head, round face and her eyes seem Sindu big and nice.

On Monday I drove to school, I caught a glimpse bald Sindu walking into her classroom and waved to me with a smile I waved back.

Laki2 tiba2 a child out of the car, shouting, "Sindu, please wait for me."

To my surprise it turned out laki2 child's head bald, I'm thinking maybe "bald" model today.

Without introducing herself, a woman came out of the car and said:
"Your child, Sindu, benar2 great. Children laki2 the road with him now, Harish, is my child, she suffered from cancer, leukemia. "

The woman stopped talking, for a moment I see the tears started welling melt:
"Last month Harish absent from school due to chemotherapy become bald head, so he will not go to school afraid of being ridiculed by classmates teman2. Well, last week Sindu came to the house and promised my son to cope with taunts that might occur. Only, I think if Sindu betul2 not want to sacrifice her beautiful hair for my son Harish. Mr and wife truly blessed lord God, have a good-hearted girl. "

I stood transfixed and tears do not seem to melt. My little angels, please teach me about the MEANING OF LOVE!

Control of Your Heart by Terri McPherson

"Living in love and loving life"

A wise and understanding heart does not repay a hurt with a hurt. In doing so, the heart is diminished. Fissures form. Love leaks out. Every pain given in return for one received, changes the contents of the heart. It is no longer defined by love, wisdom and understanding. It is redefined by the bearers of hurt and hate, pain and prejudice, meanness and madness, sorrow and sadness. You give away control of your very own heart.

The despair of being hurt is healed by overcoming it, not clinging to the hurt and inflicting more of it on the world. When darkness is added to darkness, no one can see, no one can love. Everyone loses.

Love is not always warm and fuzzy. Sometimes it's the integrity we hold on to when we're tempted to strike back. Sometimes it's the honor that keeps us from exchanging the valuable contents of our heart for the harsh satisfaction of lashing back.

No, the way of love is not always easy, but when night falls, dawn is assured.

The integrity and honor of a wise and understanding heart, rises with the sun of a new day.

http://www.heartnsouls.com/stories/b/s141.shtml

An Act Of Love

Author: Clay Harrison

An act of love need not be
A gesture great or grand…
A smile can work a miracle
And show you understand.
Being there in time of need
Transcends the spoken word;
A helping hand is simply grand
When hearts begin to bleed.

A prayer is nothing till it’s heard
Beyond the highest leaf,
But when it’s answered, oh my friend,
How strong is our belief!
An act of love may simply be
A smile, a hug, a kiss...
But it’s a joy for all to see
When troubles come like this

http://www.heartnsouls.com/stories/h/s757.shtml

BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE

Daniel: I guess we are the left overs in this world.
Jasmine: I think so.. All of my friends have boyfriends & we are the only 2 persons left in this world without any special someone in our lives.
Daniel: Yup! I don't know what to do.
Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game.
Daniel: What game?
Jasmine: I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days & you will be my boyfriend.
Daniel: That's a great plan in fact, I don't have anything to do for the following weeks..
DAY 1:
They watched their first movie together & were both touched in the romantic film.
DAY 4:
They went to the beach & had a picnic... Daniel & Jasmine had their quality time together.
DAY 12:
Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and they went to a Horror House.. Jasmine was scared and she tried to touch Daniel's hand but by accident she touched someone else's and they both laughed..
DAY 14:
They saw a fortune teller down the road and asked for their future. The fortune teller said: "My darlings, please don't waste the time of your lives... spend your time together happily." Then tears flow from the teller's eyes.
DAY 20:
Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the hill and they saw a meteor... Jasmine mumbled something.
DAY 28:
They rode on a bus and because of the bumpy road, Jasmine gave her first kiss to Daniel by accident.
DAY 29:
11:37 pm : Daniel & Jasmine were sitting in the park where they first decided to play this game... Daniel: I'm tired Jasmine... do you want any drinks? I'll buy you one.. I'll just go down the road..
Jasmine: Apple juice would be fine,thanks.
Daniel: Wait for me...
20 minutes later... a stranger approached Jasmine.
Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
Jasmine: Yes, why? What happened?
Stranger: A reckless drunken driver ran over Daniel & he is critical in the hospital.
11:57pm : The doctor came out from the emergency room & handed out an apple juice & a letter to Jasmine.
Doctor: We found this in Daniel's pocket.
Jasmine read the letter which says:
Jasmine, this past few days, I realized you are really a cute girl & I am falling for you.. your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game.. & before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life. I love you, Jasmine...
Jasmine crumples the paper & shouted..
"Daniel! I don't want you to die...I love you... Remember that night we saw a meteor? I mumbled something.. I wished that we would be together forever & never end this game. Please don't leave me, Daniel... I love you, you cannot do this to me
Then the clock strikes 12
Daniel's heart stop pumping
THEN IT WAS THE 30th DAY...
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Always love your loved ones & show them how you feel before it's too late.. You will never know when they will be gone from your embrace.. If you were given a time to bestow petals of everlasting compassion & love to your love ones, today is the day. Love them while they are still here...
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